Day 17: Food, Glorious Food

Carla was curious about what we eat here and what we feed the kids. Believe me, I was curious too and I’m still learning. Everything is different – from size portions, to flavor, to directions in a different language, to ovens using celcius vs. fahrenheit, from pounds to kilos, to how frequently they shop here, to the packaging, and I could go on and on.

For breakfast, I grew up with a Dutch treat – Hagel Slag. Basically it is a dark, chocolate sprinkle that you sprinkle onto buttered toast. In California, I could buy a box for $6.00 at Ranch 99. Here at the Albert Hijn (the favored grocery store from the locals here) a box is less than 2 Euros – less than half price!  My kids are enjoying this sweet treat, although it’s not the most healthiest of breakfasts. Jeff and I also like a piece of aged cheese on toast for breakfast.

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For lunch, we’ve been enjoying Toasties – like grilled cheese sandwiches, sometimes with a slice of thin meat. Lil’ C has found a new passion which is helping me cook in the kitchen. He actually found a new way to make grilled cheese toast by sprinkling cheese into the hot pan first to melt and crisp it, and then to add the bread on top. The cheese sticks to the bread and makes the most delicious sandwiches that we all love. The other family favorite is quesadillas. Although they don’t seem to have cheddar cheese here, like we do back in CA. Instead, it’s a white, young cheese that tastes great.  We’ve figured out the right packaging now.

While we’re busy messing up the kitchen, we have also been preparing dinner at the same time. Cook once, eat twice!  I like it. But lots of times the dinner smells so good, that there are lots of taste testers and samplers nibbling away at dinner.

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One thing I like about the local stores is that they have a lot of pre-cut and pre-sliced mixed vegetables and meats that make for easy stir-fries.  We’ve been making curries, stir fried noodle dishes, fried rice (nasi goreng) and similar dishes. They are easy to make and we all love them. We add some soy sauce, fish sauce, chili sauce, oyster sauce, garlic and/or salt and pepper.  But I think we need to find some new ideas.

The hardest part for me is reading directions on the backs of packages. I’ve been able to adapt and just be creative, but I’d love to follow a recipe or instructions to make something as simple as pancakes. I know I could type the recipe into Google translate, but that means more work. So for now, I’ve just been cooking what I know.

Some things taste very different than we expect too. For example, C wanted BBQ sauce on his fries. His BBQ sauce actually tasted more like thousand island dressing and nothing like BBQ sauce.  And when I made fajitas for the Petersons, using packaged fajita seasoning, it had a nice curry flavored undertone. That’s great if you’re expecting curry, but not so great when you’re hoping for fajitas.

We’ve also noticed that the savory flavors we’re used to tend to be milder here.

Another snack like food we all love are the bitter-ballen. I don’t know exactly how to describe them, but they are like a deep fried, thick gravy like veggie filling that are served with spicy mustard. You can order them as little snack size balls or as Kroquets – more of a Twinkie like shape that is served on a bun. I love them.  French fries or frites are also quite popular. The difference is that they are served typically with mayonaise, but not the Mayo we’re used to in America. It’s actually quite flavorful with a much better texture. Satay (peanut) sauce is also served with fries. Mmm…. Not going to get any skinnier eating this way!

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And as for shopping, the cashiers sit at their cash registers and customers must bring their own bags and bag their own groceries. Of course, they have bags to buy too.  Eggs are not refrigerated but instead are found on a typical shelf like you would find bread. I still refrigerate them when we get home. Luckily we have a big, American sized refrigerator!  The bread is very fresh and there are several local choices. You don’t see as many big name brands competing for shelf space like we do in the states. I like this change.  To use a shopping cart, you must put a 50 cent piece into the cart to use it, and when you return it, your 50 cent piece is also returned. Good control of the carts!  By the cash register, the candy choices are a bit different too.

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One other difference that is HUGE, is that kids can buy and consume wine and beer at the age of 16!  Isn’t that surprising?

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The market place is also open on Friday afternoons in Amstelveen. It’s fun to shop around, people watch and taste hot, freshly made stroopwafels! My favorite dutch cookie – waffle like cone flavored cookies filled with a sweet, warm, caramel filling.  This week we enjoyed seeing the fish market with HUGE live lobsters. The kids also picked some sweet candies and we enjoyed just walking around and taking it all in.

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We’re enjoying our new home and settling in.  Today the massive IKEA delivery arrived and the assembly team worked for 8 hours straight!  We’re just waiting for our couch to arrive next week and for our kitchen table to be re-delivered hopefully early this week as some pieces were missing from the box today. Oh well – we will just enjoy our chairs and one ottoman.  And the kids are happy with their new bedrooms and personal items. It’s all good.  Now I need to go get a stroop wafel for dessert! Want one?  xo

Day 16: SUPed the Amstel and Amsterdam Canals!

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I’m sitting on a kitchen bench in our living room with tired arms. The rental furniture was picked up today and our new furniture arrives tomorrow. We bought a few mattresses and blankets and sheets last week so we are able to actually sleep in beds, so that’s good! We went shopping today to buy a few more linens to cover the mattresses too. We also had fun walking around the Friday market place. On Friday’s, vendors fill the city center selling all sorts of things from cheese, to produce, to household goods, toys, linens, candy and other things. We are slowly (or quickly) getting familiar with our surroundings and making our house more homey.

As the movers were moving stuff out, the kids were exploring the canal in front of our house on our neighbor’s inflatable canoe. They had so much fun splashing around, and making new friends. One of the girls only speaks Dutch and the other little girl speaks English and Dutch. So between the three they found a way to communicate and play. It was fun watching them bond through play.

After “working” today, I got to go for a Friday evening paddle with 50 of my newest “friends!”. I found Morene on Facebook and have been following her since before we moved. She posted that she had rentals available for a Friday night paddle through Amsterdam and tonight I was able to join her. I was so excited!! It was awesome and peaceful and a workout! The weather was gorgeous and the water was warm. It was fun navigating the narrow canals and paddling with a “team” of other SUP-ers, under bridges and around boats and over wakes. Can you see my perm-a-grin???

Jeff and the kids drove me to the drop off location and then I paddled for two hours down the Amstel river and through several canals including the Herengracht. I love being on the water and seeing things from a different perspective. It was fun to watch the tourists taking our pictures and watching us as we paddled by.

I can’t wait to go again!

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Day 15: Beach Day

What I love (and hate) about summer is not having a plan and structure and time expectations. Some days just end up being perfect, unplanned but planned and they just come together like today. I always have a list of To Do’s but usually there is flex to it and different priorities allow me to juggle and shift and change the order based on the highest need at any given moment.

Today lil’ C really wanted to see his friend’s again and I was happy when the Peterson’s called to invite us to join them at their hostel today and to hang out. We knew there was a beach near by to check out but we weren’t sure what the weather would be like. There was also a playground and beautiful gardens to enjoy and to allow us to just hang out, once we arrived.

We packed lunches and towels and bathing suits and headed out to meet our friends around lunch time.

It was a gorgeous day at the sea. The kids had fun body surfing, searching for sea life, and building sand castles. they found cool shells, pincher crabs, a mini starfish, and jellyfish. They were curious as to why the women weren’t wearing tops and why the little kids were walking around naked. I just explained it as being European and it not being a big deal, and that they were comfortable with their own bodies and how cool was that?

The weather was so nice that we stayed all day until dinner time. We stopped for the kids to get some French fries with mayonaise and peanut sauce and bitterbollen with mustard. Everyone loved the bitterbollen and we loved sharing new foods with our friend’s. Im
So glad we just went with the flow today and ended up at my favorite place, the beach! The beach snack shack also had a playground that was quite entertaining. A perfect day…

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Day 14: What I Am… Is What I Am

Are you what you are – or what?

(Thank you Edie Brickell… I used to sing this song on top of my lungs – did you too?)

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I found this pillow today on our all day furniture shopping palooza with Anita and Kelsi. We bought everything we needed to finish furnishing our house today!  All the beds and couches, tables and chairs, desks and dressers were ordered today. Can I hear a big shout out?!?!  This is a HUGE accomplishment if you can only imagine trying to furnish a home in a day or two or three!  Anita gave us another full day of Dutch translation and driving and organizing the details for our shopping trip while Kelsi tried to teach me a few dutch words here and there. We are so happy that our furniture will be delivered this weekend already, with the couch coming next week. When we ordered our couch in the states it took 6-8 weeks for delivery time. I was so excited when they said it would only take 9 days.  I AM so happy and exhausted!

Kris and Scott decided to spend the night with us last night and our kids all still wanted to play together after breakfast. We were so lucky that they decided to keep our kids with them while we were on our never-ending shopping trip.  They all went to the forest and explored Adventure Island again. I think they probably had more fun and were definitely less bored than they would have been shlepping around with us from shop to shop!  Thank you Scott and Kris for entertaining our family and I’m sorry we were gone longer than expected. We loved seeing you and can’t wait to see you all again this week.

Hope you all are enjoying the last few weeks of summer. xo

Day 13: Happy

Today was a perfect day filled with visits from friends and I Am Content!

I love having people around me and being together.

Pauline introduced me to her friend Birgitta who lives in our new home town. She came over for coffee today and brought me a beautiful bouquet of flowers. I could get used to this!

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It was so nice to find out the best grocery store in town, a referral for a doctor and dentist, as well as the local urgent care number and non-emergency police number. She also told me where to go to get a hair cut and the best gym in town. Plus, she’s super sweet and friendly and I just loved hanging out with her all morning.
Thanks Pauline for sharing your friend with me! She’s wonderful!

After Birgitta left, we had a late lunch and Alycia came over with her kids. She’s my friend from Palo Alto who shared the same Dutch tutor as me. We met in Mountain View before she moved to our new home town in April and we now live a couple blocks from each other. How cool is that? The kids had so much fun playing together and didn’t want to leave each other. It will be so nice for them to have familiar faces at their new school when they start in a couple weeks.

After Alycia left, Margalith wanted to take the kids to adventure island in the Bos. She said we should just go for 15 minutes and have the kids run around. I was resistant since the Peterson’s were on their way over for dinner and it was 4:30 already and they were going to be here by 6 at the latest! How was I going to make everything work? Well, I’m in this mode of stepping out of my comfort zone and living in the moment and so we did. We enjoyed running around like Tom Sawyer through the forest and we can’t wait to go back again.

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As we were driving home and getting ready to park, the Peterson’s drove up at the same time! Perfect timing!! The Peterson’s are traveling around the world for a year and will be in Holland for 10 days. We were so happy that they chose to come and hang out with us for dinner and a instant sleepover. How cool is that? Life is good.

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Day 12: New Bikes

I’m so glad you’re reading my blog and sharing this journey with me. Thank you all for your comments and likes and your private emails and Facebook messages. You inspire me to keep writing and sharing and I’m so glad you’re getting something out of reading along with me. I love hearing from you, and knowing that we’re all part of this great, big beautiful world. Thank you.  xo

So we ordered new bikes last week Thursday, and the customer service isn’t quite the same as we’ve come to expect. But anyway, they called this morning to say the bikes were ready for pick up. We were going to go walk to the bike store to get them just after we finished cleaning up. By the time we were ready, the weather wasn’t.  I’m still adjusting and adapting to the unpredictable nature of rain in Holland. It was gorgeous this morning.

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But then the rain started pouring horizontally to the left, and then the wind switched directions and it started sliding to the right. I stared out the window in awe, and kept on cleaning and decluttering.  At least the rain is good for a clean house. Little C thought it was fun to dance in the rain, but given that he only has one pair of tennis shoes right now, wet shoes wouldn’t be so fun. We cleaned and cooked dinner together instead and waited for the rain to pass.  And we put together my little American Zen Beach Garden that Julie M. gave to me before we left! I love this little thing and it reminds me of home. Christina said she’s going to send me a paddle board to add to the scenery!!  Wouldn’t that be perfect?

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By 4:00 pm – yes, our timing is so off, we walked to the bike shop in the drizzle of rain to pick up our new bikes. The kids were very excited. Little C rode his bike there and locked up his own bike with his own lock and key. He is very proud of his new wheels!  After we picked up our bikes, we enjoyed a nice ride through town in the sunshine, exploring the neighborhood streets. We discovered a fun BMX bike park just near our house, over the little bridge that crosses the canal. Little C was able to ride around, but big C didn’t buy a helmet so I said no to that.

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It’s very strange to see the kids without helmets. I didn’t make them buy new ones today, but I wouldn’t say I was comfortable with that decision. They shipped theirs and they should be here in 3 weeks. We’ll see if we don’t make another trip to the bike shop to buy new ones before then. The good news is that the streets are flat and there are dedicated bike lanes that are separate from the traffic, which makes me feel a little safer. But again, I fell off my bike with no traffic at all and had a concussion that left me unable to go to school or work for 3 weeks!  I think the Americans know something about bike safety… I hope that we’ll be role models in this area, but I struggle with standing out and being different.

Speaking of standing out and being different, another challenge I’m facing is living in a row house with neighbors attached to my house and us being a VERY LOUD family!!  I don’t want to be the LOUD Americans, but we’re used  to being loud and voicing our opinions and disagreeing and arguing with love and kindess!  *smile*  And teaching the kids to be quiet, and not calling for one another from 3 floors up or from outside isn’t something that changes immediately!  But if I master this one, I’ll be so happy!  It’s exhausting with all the reminders and punishments and time outs, especially when we’re here a lot of the time! Wish me luck on this one. I’ll let you know how we do and if the neighbors still acknowledge us next month!

One last thing before I go, we signed up for Magic Jack which is a phone service we can use through the internet, where we could keep our old home number and call anywhere for like $.02 cents per minute. This is an awesome thing! We have a regular hand held phone that works, and it also rings to my cell phone.  So cool, right? We called to wish Val a happy birthday, had a long conversation with each of my sisters and left messages for my parents. I love being able to stay connected and this is one more way to satisfy that need.  Just remember if you call us though, that we’re 9 hours ahead of California!!  😉  

 

Day 11: Visiting Belgium and the City of Gent

Today we took our first international road trip to Belgium. It was a 2 1/2 hour drive and we went to meet up with Ilse and her kids who are visiting there for a couple more days. Ilse was my Dutch tutor back in the states and her husband grew up in the town of Gent. She invited us to come meet her there and to show us around. Of course, we agreed to the invitation and enjoyed a beautiful day exploring a new city. Thank you, Ilse!

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In the car, all together, nice and cozy!

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Cool bridge photo as we were crossing the Waal River in NL.

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Lunch at the clock restaurant with the kinderen.

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Boat ride through Gent.

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View of the town through the castle walls.

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Inside the castle courtyard.

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C was so happy to spend the day with a friend!

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We tried Belgian Wafels and small Italian ice cream cones. J was surprised by how small the scoops were and how they didn’t fill the cones.

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One of the three famous towers in the city center. We walked through this church and the crypt. Coolest part was the modern art depicting Jesus hanging on the cross but all you saw was a piece of shattered glass with spikes where they would have pierced Jesus’ hands and feet. Very moving.

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Me and Ilse outside the church. It was so nice of her to show us around.

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Three little bears wanted a beer… One was too little, one was too medium and one was just right! Perfect way to end the day.

Day 10: Day in Amsterdam

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Today was the gay pride parade on one of the canals in Amsterdam and we were invited to attend. I wouldn’t normally take the kids to this type of event but I felt like we should go for a short while to be with our extended family and to experience a celebration that is not usually ours to share. We like to learn about people, religion, culture, and geography, and when we are invited, we like to show our respect and participate along with our loved ones.

People were so happy and crowded all sides of the streets near the canal and over the bridges probably 10 people deep that you couldn’t hardly see. There was music and dancing and flamboyant costumes and streamers and horns and bright pink boas and tiaras every where. The canals were filled with boats and dancers and groups of people celebrating diversity and acceptance, including the police and the mayor of Amsterdam. I liked that and I liked seeing so many happy people. But I didn’t like my kids seeing nearly naked dancing people whatever their orientation is. So we kissed our cousins goodbye and went on with the day, looking for the best Frites place in town.

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There was a little shop near the Singel that sells french fries in little paper cones with whatever type of sauce you’d like. They are hot and thick and fresh and the line wrapped around the side of the building. They have been in business since 1957 and they just sell frites and sodas and they aren’t cheap, so they must be making a fortune! We all enjoyed them, except for lil’ C who order BBQ sauce on his and it tasted like Thousand island dressing.

We decided to walk with our snack into the indoor shopping mall and just look around. That was until a security guard approached us and told us we couldn’t eat in the mall. Another learning… Looks like we should do one thing at a time and relax and enjoy our fries. Good idea! We walked back out and finished and then went back up to the top floor of the building to check out the 360 views of the rooftops of the city. We sat and ordered drinks and just hung out together. It was very relaxing and quiet and peaceful. Just what I needed after the stressful earlier part of the day. I don’t much care for crowds.

We also got experience with the fickle weather. We all left the house in short sleeves, and we’ve learned to carry umbrellas, but we’re not used to the weather going from hot to pouring rain and then back again. That’s ok, we’ll adapt and get used to it and add light rain coats to our day bags.

It’s nice to be home and watching the Olympics. We enjoyed watching the mixed doubles tennis, but it’s making me really want to play again and dust off my racket. Know anyone in Amstelveen area that wants to play with me?

Hope you have a good day and experience all that life offers you. xo

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Day 9: Wired

Can I just tell you how happy I am to be sitting on my couch with the TV on, my connected computer on my lap, kids in bed and my husband by my side? This is comfort to me.  I AM Content.

I don’t know about you, but having internet connectivity is like having electricity. Sure, you could live without it, but WHY?  I love having access to information and I love connecting with loved ones, and now that I am over seas and across time zones, the internet provides a way of connecting and being in touch with the world. I actually got to watch some of the Olympics. That’s HUGE to me!  So glad the Ziggo guy showed up on time today and provided internet and cable connectivity. Happy. hApPy. happy.

Ok enough about my obsession with connectivity – I want to share my gratitude again. You see Anita and Gerard came over today and spent the entire day with us. Gerard took the day off from work so that he could bring his trailer and help us shop and pack and deliver our loot. He also brought tools and a drill to help with the assembly!  We took two cars and a small trailer and the kids and ventured to IKEA for a 5 1/2 hour shopping extravaganza! Now we typically don’t like IKEA, but here it provides a one stop shop. However, not speaking the language makes it especially hard to translate and connect with the local workers. Having Anita to write down all the codes and prices and locations was so helpful. I just let go and let her take care of me. That’s not comfortable for me. I like to be in control. I like to be doing the giving and don’t particularly like asking for or receiving help. I want to be the giver. Yet today, it was her turn and I was so happy she was there by my side. She knew what mattress sizes I needed and what size sheets would fit, and what type of comforters we would need for summer and winter weather, and had suggestions to offer around every corner.  We all meandered through the maze that is IKEA, writing orders and filling our bags and baskets until we stopped to refuel in the food court. 5 1/2 hours later we were done for the day because we had to hurry back to meet the Ziggo guy. Missing our appointment was not an option!

We made it back home by 5 pm, and Anita and Gerard got to work assembling stools and benches and dressers and bookcases. Jeff started assembling the bed frame for C’S bed, while I made coffee for everyone and picked up the empty boxes and plastic wrap and providing assistance as I could.  Little C proved to be quite handy and helpful with a screwdriver and was a fast learner. He loves to be helpful and to work with us. I love that!Image

While we were assembling furniture, we were also getting hungry!  I stepped out of my comfort zone again and drove for the first time in a foreign country to the local Indonesian restaurant to pick up some Rendang, Nasi Goreng, Bami, Soya Chicken, Marinated eggs, Sayer Lodeh, Kru Pruk, Green Beans, and pickled veggies. Mmmm… sayer Lodeh is a dish that my Opa used to make when I was a little girl. I used to eat that until I was stuffed and couldn’t eat any more but would still go back for one more serving, it was that good. Having it again makes me so happy. This is the restaurant we visited the first night in town and the guy remembered me and at the end of placing my order, he gave me a side of the sayer lodeh just for me, without me even asking. How sweet is that? Not only because I love it so much but because he remembered me. He saw me and knew who I was… that’s huge!  I’m a local! And I drove to our local Indonesian restaurant?? I’m excited by the little things in life like good food and good people.

Well dinner didn’t disappoint. It was so nice to have family with us again and to share a family meal.  After dinner, they finished building a book shelf and moving the mattresses in from the porch before the rain came. They stayed longer than I thought they would as they had a birthday party to attend.( I still can’t believe they gave up their whole day for us – thank you! )

Another learning — parties here start between 8 and 9 pm usually, after dinner and usually go until 1 or 2 in the morning and this is normal! Who knew?  I better start practicing staying up late and not falling asleep at the table! Haha — ya, that’s happened before, just ask Stacey!  

Today was a very good day, thanks to Gerard and Anita!  Thank you!  Our house is starting to feel like a home.  

Day 8: Wheel Day!

Have a quick minute to post a quick update as we are back at the mall fixing phone plans and the timer on the parking is about to expire!!

We got a rental car today and it felt so liberating!! We drove to the bike shop and were able to buy 3 bikes – 2 for the big kids and one for Jeff. But they won’t be ready until next week! Customer service is so different here, but more about that later!

A short post, as I wanted to use my iPhone and share pics. Hope you’re having a good day!!

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