We are still in the process of transitioning. Not only did we move back from overseas, but our kids are growing up quite quickly and I’m fully aware of the transition state they are also in right now. Two of the three kids are going to new schools and this stirs anxiety in me. In 2 weeks+ I’ll have three kids at three different schools.
My oldest is starting high school and judging from the wise women who have gone before me, I am fully aware how fast this time will fly by and it scares me. I want to hold on tighter and longer and give just a little bit more advice while they still can hear. I know that this is probably the opposite of what they need, but it’s what makes me feel more comfortable. I keep telling them that I’m still learning and luckily they forgive me when I don’t do this parenting thing just right.
For now, I’m giving them lots of freedom and a few boundaries, rules and chores and practicing holding them accountable. I want my kids to be disciplined and learn how to delay gratification. This usually means more work for me, but that’s ok. That’s my job.
And in the end, I think they’ll thank me for it.
Namaste.
here i am 
Maybe Christian and S – man will have a class or 2 together in high school
that would be great!
Right on sister! It is so hard to stand your ground and not give in to their requests/demands, but they will benefit so much in the long run. Hang in there and know that you are doing the right thing. It is their “job” to push back, and ours as parents to hold the line. Give yourself a pat on the back. 😀
Thank you, my mentor!! 😉