I almost didn’t go hiking today because my friends weren’t available and I wasn’t sure I wanted to go by myself. I started talking myself out of hiking as soon as I learned they were unavailable. I told myself stories like it would be better if I got more work done instead and that I could catch up. I could just exercise in the garage. I could skip exercising all together. I could make other plans. I could yada yada yada. I was just looking for a way out, an excuse, to not go alone and time was wasting away. What should I do?
I decided to go, while I was talking on the phone with my sister and told her about my predicament. She was my little cheerleader, who got me over my irrational fear that I couldn’t/shouldn’t go alone. She gave me that little kick I needed and I got myself in the car while she was still on the phone with me. I was so happy that I did.
I enjoyed the cool breeze flowing through the shady areas and the moments in the hot sun. I loved the beautiful light shining through the gaps, hearing the sound of the water, and seeing all the little animals and kids out exploring nature too.
I actually loved the experience of being alone and seeing and hearing things from a different perspective. I was aware of all the people on the trail who were together. I was aware of all the sounds the animals make. I was aware of how fast I was moving and loved it. After I got to the top, I decided to run down the hill, which is something I never do. It made an old experience new again and it felt invigorating.
I love this tree and I know I’ve shared it before, but seeing this tree reminds me of my sister and the time we took pictures in front of it in tree pose together. This tree makes me smile and think of her and today I was thankful that she pushed me out the door, by myself to enjoy nature, alone.
What do you enjoy doing alone? What are you afraid of doing alone? Hmm…I’m curious.
nAMaste and sending healing vibes to my friends who couldn’t be with me today.
Tonight’s story is shared through playful text messages between my sister and I while I snuck away to play and lay in the sun, avoiding my responsibilities, and she got ready for the night shift. This was a great way to relax and I adore you Tricia. Thank you for getting me and being you.
This was the happiest part of my day, laying in the “grass” for not even ten minutes to catch my breath, and to share the “quiet” moment with my people.
The life! My perfectly imperfectly happily ever. Now I just have to remember that.
What was the happiest 10 minutes of your day?
My sister and my niece came to visit us this weekend and this was my (welcome) sign. It was a play on words that included them with me to create the we and the plural of Here I Am. I loved this very thought from before they even arrived. I sat on my porch last night, waiting and anticipating their arrival with excitement.
I love being in their presence and when we are together, it doesn’t matter what we do. I feel comfortable and content and truly myself and I have no agenda except to soak in all their love and share it back with them, doing everything and nothing. Seriously.
These are the best kind of days. We just flowed in and out, together and with the kids, and alone and I couldn’t have asked for anything better. We were up early and shared coffee and breakfast. We took the kids where they needed to go. We rested and read and fed the kids and shopped. We watched Charlie’s soccer game and made friends. We cooked dinner together and cleaned up together. We laughed and teased each other and shared stories of our lives, the ones we don’t find the time to share over brief, interrupted phone calls and texts.
There’s no substitute for face to face time. I got to hug her and really see her and share in the joys of our kids playing together and loving one another and growing up together.
I am thankful that she chose to come visit (me) us and took the time to make love grow.
Here We Are.
I like to change the conversation of our daily life chatter and today, this conversation on Facebook from one of my BFFs and sisters, made me shout, “YESSS!!”
“Hey K, mama’s gonna teach you how to buy your own shoes. No fairy godmother. No man. YOU will be equipped to buy YOUR OWN. And if you happen to fall in love with a nice gentleman, I hope you find one who supports your walk in your own shoes.”
My sister is teaching her kindergartener the order of priorities. And if you ask this little one when she is going to get married, she’ll reply, “After I go to college!” This is brilliant and I admire her for starting and sharing this conversation! Good job, Mama.
Do you think about what conversation you’re having with your daughter(s) or the young girls you lead? Are you raising the bar and setting high expectations of them? I think we have a lot to say and can make a difference, especially when we teach them while they are young and offer counter opinions to pop culture that stands in their and our way of knowing what’s true, what’s real, and what’s important. We get to pave the way and shape their journey and guide them. What do you think is important for young girls to know?
More of my loves came to see me today from far away and I am the happiest girl! And I’m tired because we stayed up into the morning laughing and sharing stories.
Life is good with Besties in your life!
TGIF!! Have a great weekend!
Today we celebrated my sister’s graduation from nursing school.
I am so proud of her for redefining her life and BEcoming a Registered Nurse.
She had to overcome many hurdles, dedicate countless hours of studying and sacrificing sleep to achieve her goal over the past two years.
Just getting into nursing school during our current economy was a challenge and I am so proud of her dedication and her work ethic.
She never gave up and was determined to pass with grace, high class standing and with an A average.
She was the founding president of her college’s nursing honor society and was chosen to give a speech at her ceremony today.
Congratulations Nurse Tricia! I am so proud of you!!
Some of us made it to the beach today, which made my day. The drive over Highway 17 from the valley to the ocean is magnificent. I love driving through the trees and mountains and over to the other side, especially when the weather is warm and the sun is shining brightly, like today. Sometimes going to the beach in the winter time is the best time for a visit, like today.
Life is good.