I gave a presentation tonight about the journey of becoming an expatriate and a repatriate. I had an outline and food and props and shared my story with women who are great friends, which made for a comfortable audience. Most of the women had followed along with me through my blog and knew the highlights and virtually joined me on our one year adventure abroad.
So I decided to share the feelings and stories behind the story, kind of a behind the scenes version of the tour. I think they liked it, as they asked me to share another story, a version 2, another time. This made me very happy, as I am generally uncomfortable presenting to an audience and feel like I talk too much.
I shared what it was like to make the decision to move to another country. I talked about all the gritty details of the transitions and getting us out the door and into a new home in the Netherlands and back again. I shared the sad goodbyes, the anxious arrivals, the settling in, the exploration, and the return to our homeland.
I shared the lessons learned, both positive and negative.
What I learned, is that a year goes by very quickly, faster than you really think. It’s important to try new things and to not let our fears stop us from experiencing life. I think that we can do anything we set our minds to do, and that if we want something, really want something, and set a goal, we can do anything for a month, or maybe even a year or two or three. It’s not forever and we have so much to experience and try, if we trust our heart and not our fears.
And so I challenged the brave ones to come up and try some salty, Dutch licorice powder. This was a heavenly treat for me growing up, and one that I loved and used to prank my friends, just to see their reactions
They were good sports and I had a good laugh!! I don’t think they liked it much, but I was sure proud of them for trying!!
Life is good, my friends! Live it up, love it out and enjoy your precious time on this great, big planet. xo
Loved every word you said! So excited that you were able to have such a wonderful journey.
Thank you, Lenka!! That means a lot to me, especially since I was nervous!! xo
Thanks for sharing your story last night! You did a fantastic job presenting to a group–I think you are a better public speaker than you think you are. Can’t wait for installment #2.
Thank you, Kris for the feedback! I’m glad you enjoyed the program. I guess I’m more of an informal conversationalist and like to share and connect and bring everyone together. I had a great time sharing and am happy everyone liked it too. So, I’m curious – if there was a second installment, what would you enjoy learning about?
I’m sorry I missed your program. Thanks for telling about it on your blog.
Sara
I”m sorry that you weren’t able to make it out, Sara. Hope your foot is healing nicely and to see you again soon. xo